Don't Pull Them Up Too Fast

People do not heal on demand. Don't Pull Them Up Too Fast is a short, practical reset for pastors, ministry leaders, small group hosts, and anyone who helps people grow. Many people arrive in faith communities carrying more than leaders can see: abuse, addiction, grief, public shame, unsafe churches, or years of isolation. A warm welcome can bring them through the door. It cannot disciple them by itself. Dr. Royce SULLY Sullivan gives leaders a trauma-informed discipleship framework that honors process, protects people, and resists rushing transformation. You will learn how to meet behavior with understanding without excusing harm, turn digital reach into real relationship, build safety on purpose, walk newcomers through their first ninety days, and refer what is beyond your training. Inside are thirteen short chapters built for teams. Each one opens with the Scripture written out in full from the King James Version, then gives you a clear reset, one faithful next step, discussion questions, and a prayer. A thirty-day implementation plan helps your leadership team put it to work. When ministry slows down enough to honor the process, healing becomes possible.