That's Just RE-DIK-U-LUS

It's 10:47 on a Tuesday night. His hand lands on your hip - and a sentence you've never said out loud rises in your chest: "I know he loves me, but it feels like he only really wants me when he wants sex." This book was written for you. Not to hand your husband a receipt. You don't owe anybody your body, and nothing in these pages teaches otherwise. But somewhere between purity culture, a mama's warning, and a church that skipped Song of Solomon, you were handed a lie about what his desire means - and it has been costing you both. Dr. Royce Sully Sullivan brings more than two decades of pastoral counseling, honest medical teaching, and the Bible's own restored heat to the question most Christian marriage books refuse to answer plainly: what if his desire is not your enemy? Inside you will find The Four Readings - the four ways a wife reads her husband's desire, and how to move; the Pursuit vs. Appetite Test - five markers that tell covenant pursuit from selfish appetite; the Hebrew and Greek the church left out; a medical chapter that treats both bodies with zero shame; and a chapter that names husband sin plainly, because a book that could not do that would not be worth your trust. With a foreword by Kara Sullivan. No shame. No guilt. Just the truth.